7.27.25 emotional intelligence

I always thought I was emotionally intelligent.

It's one of the skills that draws people to me, it's how I attract so many people.

I have always had this ability to build a community and connection with people and i credit it all to my emotional intelligence. I can tell when people are happy, sad, etc. Make people feel heard.

until i met you.

you are so smart. the smartest person i ever met.

you notice a person's eye brow twitch - how you used to flick my face, lol.

you notice their tone, their change of voice.

you notice their breathe.

you even notice their thoughts.

sometimes i think you can read my mind.

what if- you are secured. what if all this energy can be poured into something else.

imagine all the amazing things you can accomplish.

everyone sees my potential. honestly. ivan says he backs me with his wallet, for anything i choose to do. derick and alex does too. tommy said he will help for free. everyone believes in anything i want to do. fuck. all i want to do is be a better person and have my own happy little family.

i see your potential. what an amazing mother you will be. what an amazing wife you will be. what an amazing anything you will be if you choose to.

hey, i'm so freaking proud of you as a person, and i'm so freaking blessed to have met you.

you make a difference in both me and the world <3

If you ever forget,

I will remind you of your strength

I will remind you of your softness

of how the world is better because you're in it.

I will remind you,

when doubt gets loud,

hold space for you,

like you used to hold space for me

I will choose you

in quiet rooms

in loud storms

in every lifetime.

I know you are happy now,

I am happy for you 🫶🏻